Female Ejaculation (Sexual Tips for Men)

Most women, if not all, have the ability to experience female ejaculation – or squirting. Female Ejaculation should not be confused with urinate although it may feel very similar when highly aroused. How many of you have been so turned on during sex that you found the sudden, inexplicable urge to urinate? Thinking that you are about to pee, you have restrained yourself and held back the sensation – thus depriving yourself of an ejaculate of fluid that goes along with an intense orgasm.

Female ejaculation, to me, is extremely erotic and is a pleasure both for the person ejaculating as well as the person in your company while you ejaculate. It can be related to the thrill of having a man squirt all over you (for those that are into that sort of thing), or sucking or jerking a man off and watching the results of your ministrations explode into his cum spraying out of his cock.

As mentioned earlier, the first step to achieving female ejaculation is the realisation that you can achieve it. Secondly, you must WANT to experience it and as such, you must let your body take control and not fight your sexual feelings. To this end, the most important factor is that you must be completely comfortable with your partner and you must be relaxed.

If you are afraid of creating a mess, line the bed with towels. At the very worst, just mop up after yourself! Don't deprive yourself of an awesome experience just because you are worried about creating a mess....

This how-to will attempt to teach your partner how to give you a most unforgettable experience. After some practice, you may be able to achieve this on your own, but it is always easiest to start of being 'given' and ejaculation rather than getting frustrated trying it out on your own and not succeeding.

You should also be aware that this might not work the first time. Constant experimenting and practice will get you there in the end.

Firstly, as I mentioned earlier, relaxation and the desire to achieve ejaculation are the key. Set the ambience with scented candles, light music and extra towels nearby. Start with a lot of caressing and light touching to get your partner in the mood. Nothing spoils it faster than rushing in. Spend a lot of time kissing her and lightly stroking her body. Once she is sufficiently 'warmed up', work your way down to her pleasure zone between her legs and lick and kiss her vulva gently.

As she begins to respond to your pussy licking, slowly insert one finger into her, palm upward. Slowly fuck your index finger in and out of her as you continue licking on her clitoris. Don't go further in that past your second knuckle.

At this point, gently curl your finger toward you (as if beckoning someone) and seek out the rough, ridged area at the top inside of her pussy. This is her G-spot. Gently apply pressure to this area and using the pads of your fingertips, pull your finger toward you. Don't apply too much pressure, as this could be uncomfortable if she is not fully excited at this stage. All the while, keep licking on her clitoris and vulva.

If she complains that it doesn't feel good, reassure her. Tell her to relax and to trust you. This is extremely important as she must let her body take control and release all inhibition.

At this time, you should notice that her pussy is getting very wet. This is a good time to introduce another finger. Insert your middle finger along with your index finger – this works well for me, but it all depends which fingers you are more comfortable with. Again, go no further than the second knuckle.

Repeat the entire process of curling your fingers upwards and applying pressure to her G-spot with the pads of your fingertips. Pull your fingers toward you and then straighten them out, push them back in and then curl upwards again. Don't forget to keep licking her pussy, paying attention to light tonguing of her clitoris.

You should start getting a response from her now and she should be moaning and bucking her hips upward to meet your fingers. It is time again to reassure her and tell her to relax and trust you completely.

Apply more pressure on her G-Spot and work your fingers in-upward curl-pull toward you- then in again faster and faster. It may help to use your other hand to press gently on her abdomen, just above where your fingers are working inside her. This serves to press her G-spot down onto your fingers.

You will have to work extremely hard now as she will be very close to coming and ejaculating. Keep the fingers working inside her and be careful not to be too rough. Keep your curled fingertips pressured on her G-spot constant and rather than pulling your fingers toward you, press your palm against her clitoris and pull your hand upward – as if you are fucking your fingers against her G-spot. Keep fucking her G-spot using a constant jerking motion and be careful to use your finger pads and not your nails.

You will hear her getting really squishy inside and her pussy will feel very wet and almost sloshy with juices. Encourage her to cum, tell her not to hold back as you keep applying pressure and finger fucking the rough ridged area.

She will feel the urge to pee and she must not fight it. If she cries out "I'm gonna pee!" then encourage her to pee! She is not going to pee but have a female ejaculation. Keep on what you are doing with your fingers and perhaps increase her pleasure by playing with her nipples, lick her clit or whatever else excites her.

Her body will be trembling now and she will be experiencing a rather large orgasm. Again, keep encouraging her and don't stop what your fingers are doing. She will feel the pressure building up – very much like the need to pee and finally, her body will shake in orgasm as female ejaculate shoots out of her urethra.

The amount of ejaculate can vary so don't expect too much – especially the first time. After experiencing female ejaculation for the first time, the realisation will dawn that she is able to do it. The second time will be much easier and the third even easier. Most women are able to ejaculate from normal penetration or cunnilingus once they learn that they have the ability to ejaculate. Some even ejaculate every time they have sex. Once you know exactly where to touch and the right pressure to apply, you can even ejaculate through masturbation – either with your fingers or even sex toys.

This how-to works for male-female as well as female-female. For those of you that are into multiple partners, it would be a good idea to have her suck on a cock or another pussy as she gets worked up. The prime aim of this is to distract her from fighting her feelings and to concentrate completely on sex.

Female Ejaculation is very real and can be a real change to your sexual life. As a final word, always stay relaxed, trust your partner, don't try to hard and above all have fun.

Good Luck!

What Women love To See In A Man

It’s not just about being tall, dark and handsome. There are certain ‘manly’ qualities about guys that can make any woman go weak in her knees. And while you may think it’s all about the looks, guess what? There’s more. It’s a potent mix of both, physical attributes and of course, that all important emotional touch. Here, we tell you about six points you need to heed.

Well groomed
Yes, we said tall but the reality is that height is really not as important a factor as how you present yourself. Just like guys like a women who is well turned out, women too dig guys who ensure that they are perfectly groomed a la Leonardo DiCaprio. The basic funda women believe in is that if you are careful enough to take care of yourself, they can trust you to take care of them. So, remember guys, sloppy dressing, uncombed hair, dirty nails, smelly socks, stained shirts or jeans and the likes are an absolute no-no when you are trying to make that all important impression on someone from the opposite sex.

A sense of style
Women would rather have you splurging on them than on obscenely priced designer wear. So, even if it’s a typical roadside purchase that you swear by, make sure you adopt a certain classy and stylised look and maintain it. Women don’t really expect you to be a picture copy of a Pierce Brosnan or a David Beckham, but trying to imitate their style will surely up your popularity quotient. Keep yourself updated on the latest trends. Also, just as you have your reservations against the ‘nun-type’ dressers, women too hesitate when it comes to the boring office type dresser.

Laugh it out
One of the most important trait that woman dig is a sense of humour. Women have more than enough problems to deal with and don’t really need the company of another equally depressed soul. Yes, you have your bad days, but it does go a long way if you have a good sense of humour, and clean humour at that. Beware, taking a dig at others and constantly putting others down do not really spell fun for women. And we can’t tell you enough how much women love people who can laugh at themselves and their own mistakes.

Show them you care
Women need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and cared for. Acts like holding their hand while walking down the road, watching the sunset, an occasional hug and peck on the cheeks and making sure that they cross the road safely mean that you are proud to be seen with them and care for them. Remember, not displaying your affection openly is a sign that you are ashamed of who you are with. However, beware of being crass while displaying you affections.

A sexy smile/wink
There’s a reason why women absolutely adore Richard Gere or Hugh Jackman and it has a lot to do with the way that they smile or that glint in their eyes. Believe us when we tell you that if you look at them and smile like that, it does make them feel very special, like they are one in a million.

Be calm
Woman are known to be harrowed and frenzied. Yes, they do tend to get hyper very easily and that is the precise reason why you need to be the calming factor in their lives. It really doesn’t help if you too get stressed out or fly off the handle at any and every incident. Your sex appeal lies as much in your looks as it does in your attitude – women dig guys with a cool and peaceful attitude, the one who is able to calm them down and reassure them that all is well.

10 ways to make a bedroom better for sleeping

Our bedrooms should be calm, peaceful escapes from the bustle and pressure of the everyday world. All too often, though, the stresses of the day find their way into the very places where we are meant to be the most relaxed. Such intrusions contribute to insomnia, which can lead to major health difficulties. A few easy changes can remove distractions from your bedroom and help sleep come easier.

Combat late-night problems by making your bedroom a safe, peaceful place to relax and sleep. Start with these 10 simple ideas:

1. Get the television out. Move the television from your bedroom and place it in an entertainment center in the family room or living room. Watching TV in bed inhibits good sleep.

2. Move the computer. Likewise, move the computer into a home office, or at least into its own nook in the room or den. Remove the stress and worry of your work from the place where your focus should be relaxing and sleeping.

3. Choose the right colors. Color theory dictates that different shades have different effects on people. Cool colors, those from the left side of the color wheel, are thought to provide a sense of calm. Choose one of these for the bedroom, and avoid bright, loud colors that are more exciting than soothing.

4. Eliminate excess noise. Make sure that rooms adjacent to the bedroom are not home to stereos, televisions or other noisy electronics. Most modern homes don't have completely soundproofed walls, and the bleed-through noise can keep you awake.

5. Keep out the light. Select light-blocking window treatments . Even though the sun isn't out, plenty of light can sneak into the bedroom from outside, disrupting your sleep patterns. Keeping the room as dark as possible is especially important for people whose work schedules require them to sleep during the day.

6. Add a little light. If you need a little light to sleep comfortably, consider adding a couple of nightlights or a dimmer switch rather than sleeping with a lamp on all the time.

7. Check your pipes. Loud pipes might be waking everyone in the house when one person makes a bathroom visit in the middle of the night. Look for the cause of any clanging and banging, particularly in a bathroom that is adjacent to a bedroom.

8. Seal the doors and windows. Make sure doors and windows are solid and secure, with no drafts or rattles.

9. Clean the air. Use an air purifier or humidifier to keep air quality at its best. Allergens and excessively dry air can interrupt sleep and make waking up unpleasant, too. As a bonus, many machines create a white noise that drowns out other, distracting sounds.

10. Get organized. Organize closets and keep clothing and other personal items in their places. A chaotic, messy room is stressful to the mind. Don't try to fall asleep with your eyes darting around the room, spotting shoes and clothes scattered all over the floor. Sleep well, knowing that everything is in its place.

5 Sex positions women die to have

It's time to upgrade your sex life, and to get your partner turned on like never before.

 

We already knew that women love sex, but have we ever thought of sex positions women really enjoy or feel comfortable while reaching orgasm? There are many sex positions out there, only some of them give more pleasure to women.

 

Women are always ready to accept and enjoy men's favorite sex positions but women seldom ask for their favourite position(s). The time has come for men to understand what women really want in bed. Remember, great sex happens only when there is a smooth balance between pleasure and comfort.

 

We bring you five amazing sex positions you need to explore and women always wanted to have.

 

1. Get dirty with doggy style: Women definitely enjoy doggy style. It is probably one of the best sex positions, and also the most arousing position for men. Make sure to perform this style with intimacy and pleasure.

 

2. The overused style, missionary position: No doubt, the man-on-woman position is the most common one. It's boring but sex mostly begins with missionary position, and women still like it. In this position women get more intimate with their partners through eye contact.

 

3. Women like riding, cowgirl style: It's a big turn-on for both the sexes, and perhaps the sexiest sex position. Sometimes women like to dominate men during sex. In this position women can move back and forth and stimulate their G-spot for a big orgasm. You may also try reverse cowgirl position.

 

4. Get more intimate with spoons position: Side by side sexual position is one of the most comfortable sex positions, and it can really last long. Get naughtier by doing some dirty talk while you can.

 

5. Out of control, the standing position: Sometimes women want to jump out of the bed and play again in standing position. In this style, she sits on a surface and he thrust her from the front as deeply as he can, and in all likelihood gets the chance to hit the G-spot. Try this position in the kitchen or on a tabletop.

 

Simply go ahead and give your girl the most amazing orgasm of her life.

Five exercises for better sex

Sex is a physical activity, as we already know. Therefore, getting in shape, being fit and having a fabulous body will definitely improve your sex-life. Not only this, working out regularly will help increase your stamina and strength to perform.

People who regularly exercise are more healthier, fitter and tend to have more attractive bodies. This should be enough motivation for folks who think that their weight is normal and hence, do not need to exercise. If the prospects of better health doesn't motivate you, perhaps exercising for the sake of better sex might. Here are some exercises that will help you to enhance your prowess in bed:

Push-ups:
Push-ups are great for obvious reasons. They help to strengthen the arms, shoulders and stomach muscles. Sporting a paunch might be a major turn off for quite a lot of people. Having firm, sexy abs is very attractive physical attribute. Having strong abs is very useful for males especially when it comes to the man-on-top position.

Squats:
Doing squats, a lot of muscles are put to work producing greater amount of hormones, which in turn will boost your sex drive. They improve one's strength and stamina of gluteus muscles and the upper legs thereby helping to improve one's performance. Doing squats also helps one achieve a firm and attractive bottom.

Bench press:
Doing bench presses, helps to strengthen the chest and shoulder muscles. Women find chest muscles sexually appealing and it will help men to support themselves longer without getting exhausted easily. As for women, doing bench presses will make the breasts firm and seem full.

Cardio:
Whether it is doing aerobics, running or swimming, doing cardio-vascular exercises help increase blood circulation in the body. Having a good blood flow and circulation helps in the process of arousal, which is especially essential for men performance-wise. Also, doing cardio helps release of endorphins in the brain, which are known as the happy hormones.

Kegel's exercise:
Last but not the least, Doing Kegel's exercise can help make a remarkable difference in your sex life. Pubococcygeal muscles also known as PC muscles are the muscles used to stop urinating midstream. That's because, for men, regularly doing Kegel's exercises will help them to control the muscles that contract during ejaculation and therefore prolong ejaculation. As for women, doing Kegel's exercises will help you gain gain control over the vaginal muscles, thereby getting greater sexual satisfaction.

Facebook Dating Tips To Attract Girls

Hot chicks are all over Facebook. Do you want to get them interested in you or in having sex with you, all day and night long? Keep reading. I'll give you 3 simple tips to start with. Any moron can do it, if you can't - you are in need of some serious psychiatric help.

Tip #1 - Fix your Profile

Look at your FB Profile. What does it say about you? A girl that doesn't know you yet - what kind of image will she create about you when she checks your Profile? Think about it. Manipulate your profile to create a more attractive image about yourself. A guy that travels, has a lot of friends and has a strong identity is much more attractive than a guy getting wasted with "the boys" and behaving like a douche. Think about what your profile TELLS about you, then work on it.

Tip #2 - Don't be an Open Book

"Open books" are guys that are, well, open books. A girl can check their Profile and know, or at least ASSUME that she knows EVERYTHING about this guy. He gave it all. He updates his status all the time, he exchanges messages with friends on his own wall, in detail, so everyone can see. He wrote a huge About me, he is just too obvious. There is no charm, no mystery, no intrigue. Nothing that will make her think "oh, interesting, I'd LOVE to find out more about this guy!". Look sharp, don't say everything about yourself when she asks. If you start chatting with her - don't bow down, and act like a chump. If you don't have respect for yourself, she won't respect you. And girls almost never have sex with guys they don't respect.

Tip #3 - Learn How to Read Signals

Facebook is a PERFECT place for figuring out whether a girl is into you or not. If she is - you'll see it. If you know where to look. Her actions will speak LOUDER than her words. If you send her a message, and she replies positively, and asks you a question - you've got a clue. If it doesn't take her a month to reply on Facebook's Chat, you've got a clue. If she approaches you first - there's another one. These are just the basics, there are many layers in between. When you learn how to read a girl like an open book - you'll know exactly what to say, and when to make "the next step" in your Facebook relationship. Soon, you'll be offline, in bed, "loving" each other.

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How To Have Sex With a Friend

When you’re pals with a real hottie, it’s hard not to think about how to have sex with a friend. So for all you pervy naughty ones out there who want to have sex with a friend, here’s your baby step into the world of sex buddies.

Seriously, who hasn’t met a friend who’s sexy and all that?

And how many of us haven’t wondered how to have sex with a friend?

It feels so good to be bad. It feels even better to cross that boundary and play dirty, doesn’t it?

Life in the fast lane couldn’t get any faster in these days of fast love and raging hormones. It’s hard to get over the blues of being single especially when everyone around is either madly in love, or physically in love.

If lovers can do it, why not friends? After all, friends do share everything lovers share, other than physical intimacy.

Sex with a friend

You can turn to a friend to cheer you up, and hang out together to cure those boredom butt pains. As always.

A friend can really help cheer you up in more ways than just a shoulder to cry on. If this friend is of the opposite sex and looks hot, that is.

In these days of sexual relationships and one night stands, friendships too seem to dig in for a stake of lust and carnal desires. Sex, to be precise. A hug between two friends can lead to heavy petting and a drink can show you the direction to your friend’s bedroom, with a finale of lustful lovemaking.

Why have sex with a friend?

If your friend is charming or really good looking, what are the odds that you are not going to want to have sex with a friend? Oh yeah, I seem to have forgotten the ‘fact’ that friends are out of bounds. Is that what you’re trying to say? You know what, take that phony excuse and stick it up your rear end!

Now don’t tell me that you never thought about how to have sex with a friend and thought about a sizzling friend as a hot lay, or hoped for a drunken snog at least once.

Having sex with a friend – A sex buddy

A sex buddy is someone you know as a friend, and is physically attractive and physically attracted to you. It doesn’t end there though, a sex buddy is one who shares uninhibited physical intimacy with you, with no strings attached! If this is news to you, take those goody goody glasses off your face and take a good look at the pair gyrating in the club, and try keeping a count on the number of partners that are being swapped in a night, at least on the dance floor!

Sex buddies have always existed over the years but until a few years ago, it was an immoral and hushed affair. Friends have always had sex with friends, but it’s not really something people readily talk about in the open.

But recently, with the boom in 24/7 calls from work and work shifts at hours that run late into the night, the prospect of friends just hoping to have sex with a friend or friends just rubbing the shoulders is passé! These days, it’s not taboo or unusual to have sex with a friend, after work or a party. If one night stands can be morally legal amongst us, why not having sex with a friend? Anyways, they’re here to stay, whether you like it or not.

Phone calls and sex with a friend

A booty call is that ‘special’ call that is made with the sole intention of having sex, with the person being contacted. And this person is usually a single attractive friend of the opposite sex, who is bored, and craving for some sort of fun to wind a boring day. Or perhaps, they too just want to have sex with a friend. A booty call is usually made at night, or after consuming alcohol.

A booty call might be the telephonic version of a one night stand, but it’s a lot better in more ways than one. Here, you don’t have to worry about waking up in bed with an ugly slob as you already know what your hot friend looks like, and the chances of getting an STD is relatively less, though it cannot be eliminated.

Now that you’re all warmed up with the lingo, it’s time to ask yourself if you want to have sex with a friend. And if you do want that, it’s time to take the next baby step into the land of sex buddies.